Abuse

 Abuse comes in many forms, not just physical. It can be financial, verbal, spiritual, sexual and emotional. Many people use the excuse that ‘he/she doesn’t hit me, so…’ and they therefore put up with their partner’s shitty behavior. They are often gaslit to believe that they caused this behavior or that they deserved it. Often when you try to discuss the problem, they will say it didn’t happen or you are exaggerating, being too emotional or dramatic, that it’s not a big deal. Slowly, over time, you start to feel crazy, like you are losing your mind. For many, keeping a journal of the events or recording conversations/arguments can be helpful to remind you that you aren’t crazy, that the event really did happen as you recall. It will also come in handy when the time comes to go to court, so that you can show just what a vile monster they are. Abuse in front or around children teaches them a skewed ‘normal’ that will affect their entire life. 

Visit Dr Ramani’s YouTube channel for many videos regarding narcissism and their abuse and how to escape  

Here are just a few examples of abuse from my ex: 




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  1. DSJFebruary 12, 2022 at 2:13 PM

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  3. KJune 22, 2022 at 2:46 AM

    Can you guys please get in contact with me I have lots of questions I need answered quick. I seen a lot of red flags and stories not matching

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  4. DSJJune 23, 2022 at 2:41 PM

    I can't believe how he spoke to 3rd wife in front on Penny. You don't say any of that in front of a 3-4 year old. He's evil!

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  5. MarybelleJune 23, 2022 at 3:21 PM

    I agree I can't believe he spoke to her like that in front of their daughter.. disrespectful. So is there a support group we can join?? If so when do we meet. Sounds like the Tinder Swindler 2.0. I'm sorry you went through this.

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